May Kendall in "Comradeship" For good or for evil a man's moral and spiritual outlook is altered by the outlook of his comrade. It is inevitable, and in all true comradeship it makes for truth, and generosity, and freedom. It is an incalculable enlargement of human responsibility, because it constitutes us, in a measure, guardians each of the other's soul. And yet, it is never the suppression of the weak individuality by a strong one. That is not even true discipleship, but spiritual tyranny. What the play of two personalities brings about is a fuller, deeper self-realization on either side. The experience of comradeship, with all the new knowledge and insight that it brings into a life, can have no ideal unchanged, but the change is not of the nature of a substitution, but of a continuous growth. It is not mental or moral bondage, but deliverance from both. And it is the deliverance from bondage to ourselves. It is our refuge from pride. More than all else, comradeship teaches us to walk humbly with God. For while God's trivial gifts may allow us to grow vain and self-complacent, His great gifts, if we once recognize them, make us own our own deep unworthiness, and bow our heads in unspeakable gratitude. We may have rated our deserts high, and taken flattery as our just due; we may have competed for the world's prizes, and been filled with gratified ambition at securing them. But however high we rate ourselves in the hour in which the soul is conscious of its spiritual comrades, we know that God's great infinite gift of human love is something we have never earned, could never earn, by merit or achievement, by toil, or prayer, or fasting. It has come to us straight out of the heart of the eternal Fatherhood; and all our pride and vanity fall away, and our lives come again to us as the lives of little children. May Kendall in "Comradeship" Honest men esteem and value nothing so much in this world as a real friend. Such a one is as it were another self, to whom we impart our most secret thoughts, who partake of our joy, and comfort us in our affliction; add to this that his company is an everlasting pleasure to us. Pilpay Cicero "On "Friendship" Eliza If is it not perfectly understood what virtue there is in friendship and concord, it may be learned from dissension and discord. Dost thou remember when we roved in summer's glowing prime, While friendship's sacred bells rang out a soft and merry chime? A smiling face Old Saying Small service is true service while it lasts. William Wordsworth Alfred Tennyson Shelley Dante Gabriel Rossetti Francis "Of Friend ship" Of humblest friends, bright creature! scorn not one: The daisy, by the shadow that it casts, My friend, with you to live alone, I know you are my friend, and all I dare Speak to my soul that will I trust with thee. Let thy soul strive that still the same The best way to represent to life the manifold use of friendship is to cast and see how many things a man cannot do for himself. Best friend,-my well-spring in the wilderness. When a belovéd hand is laid in ours, When, jaded with the rush and glare Of the interminable hours, Our eyes can in another's eyes read clear, Is by the tones of a loved voice caressed, A bolt is shot back somewhere in our breast, A man becomes aware of his life's flow, And hears its winding murmur and he sees When Christianity preached the love of one's neighbor it raised the natural instinct of man's fellowship with his kind into a holy commandment. Friendship's like music; two strings tuned alike It blooms and blossoms both in sun and shade, Is provident, yet seeketh not its own; The best that we find in our travels is an honest friend. He is a fortunate voyager who finds many. George Eliot Matthew Max Francis Robert son Henry David Thoreau Algernon Swinburne Edward Clinton Scollard Henry mond Proverb Thomas Cicero We are sometimes made aware of kindness long passed, and realized that there have been times when our friends' thoughts of us were of so pure and lofty a character that they passed over us like the winds of heaven unnoticed; when they treated us not as what we were, but as what we aspired to be. The blood of kindred or affinity So much not binds us as the friendship pledged A friend is worth all the hazards we can run. O Traveler, who hast wandered far Who talks of common friendship? There is no such thing in the world. On earth no word is more sublime. Friendship is love with understanding. The thread of our life would be dark, Heaven knows! If it were not with friendship and love intertwined. Nothing in the world is more excellent than friendship. |